Wednesday, April 23, 2008

大女人

According to 百度百科, the definition of a 大女人 is as follows:
大女人
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  大女人是对女人的一种评价,与“小女人”和“小男人”相对应。
  大女人通常是指那种性格有男人特质,有超出普通女性性格优点的女人。也指那些有女权主义思想,瞧不起男人的一部分女人。甚至喜欢支配和命令他人。
  她们往往不喜欢斤斤计较,也不喜欢传播家长里短,论人是非;她们把时间用来工作、学习,用来干事业。性格顽强而有主见,有远见。豁达大度,精明干炼。
  但大女人也有其不好的一面,比如她们往往不够温柔细腻,往往粗枝大叶,容易忽略身为女性所特有的柔美,而且太过争强好胜,做什么都要与男人争个高低,会令男人对她们敬而远之。

Skimming through the entire paragraph, I highlighted the qualities that I *think* I have. OMG. Do I qualify as a 大女人??

Let's see... I see myself as wanting to learn new things, be it technical, or personal development. I have always known my pride to be very strong, so I suppose this is the 好胜 part of me. Also nobody can tell me what to do if i dun wanna do it...lol yeah i am plain stubborn, so that justifies the 性格顽强 part...

Another part of me, I am fiercely protective of my privacy. I don't know if this has something to do with me being a Cancerian. I just don't feel that I need to answer everything people asked of me, especially when it serves nothing but to satisfy their own curiosity. The only sense of curiosity I satisfy is my own... "Need-to-know basis", people.

Lastly, I can't click with people who are too brilliant, lol. I realised some of them tend to be more argumentative and more inclined to add their own uncalled-for opinions when I share with them things about my own life. Look, I don't care if your opinion is based on a true fact on earth or even in the whole universe. I didn't tell you things in my life to start a debate/argument/whatever. Its all FYI, so you just STFU and listen to understand, not listen to counter-and-argue... These are the type of people I will run like hell to get away from, because talking with them will inevitably become a debate that becomes a I-am-wrong-you-are-right kinda thing (mind you, its MY life and i am just sharing it with them... sob), sending me into an early grave. ZzzzZzz. You know what's call "八字不合"? Thats the kind of feeling I get from interacting with such people...